In brief
- The myth: your culture’s strengths are always good, so the answer is to do more of them.
- The truth: every strength has a downside, and it usually shows up as too much of the very thing you’re proud of.
- The blind spot is hard to see because it looks like success. Naming it is how you manage it.
Ask a leadership team what makes their culture great, and they’ll tell you quickly. We move fast. We take care of each other. We do it right. We aren’t afraid to challenge the way things are done.
They’re usually right. Those strengths are real, and they’re often why the company has grown.
But there’s an assumption hiding underneath that answer: if this is what makes us great, more of it can only help. That’s the myth.
The myth: more of your strength is always better
It makes sense why leaders believe it. The strength built the company. It’s in the hiring ads, the all-hands speeches and the stories people tell new hires. It’s what gets rewarded.
And because it gets rewarded, nobody questions it. A company that’s proud of moving fast doesn’t stop to ask what speed is costing. A company that’s proud of taking care of people doesn’t ask who it’s protecting from accountability.
The truth: the downside is your strength, overused
Every company has a personality, and every personality has a downside. The part most leaders miss is where the downside comes from. It doesn’t come from a weakness. It comes from the strength itself, pushed past the point where it helps.
Here’s what that looks like:
- A company proud of its closeness stops holding people to the standard, because holding the line feels like breaking the bond.
- A company proud of its care starts controlling people through that care. Decisions get made for employees instead of with them.
- A company proud of its order turns process into control of people. The rules matter more than the person following them.
- A company proud of winning turns the standard into a scoreboard. Bad news travels slowly, because raising a risk looks like flinching.
- A company proud of its ideas lets possibility outrun proof. The next big thing starts before the last one is finished.
- A company proud of its optimism stops saying hard things out loud. Problems get reframed instead of solved.
None of these companies set out to create a problem. Each one simply did more of what it was already good at.
Why it’s a blind spot
The downside is hard to see for one reason: it looks like success.
Picture a company that keeps landing on “best places to work” lists. People love it there. The engagement scores are high, leaders take care of their teams, and the award is framed in the lobby. What leaders can’t see is the employee who hasn’t met expectations in two years and has never been told, because a hard conversation feels unkind. Or the strong performers quietly carrying that work, until one of them leaves for a company that holds everyone to the same standard.
From the outside, and from the top, that culture still looks like a success. That’s what makes the blind spot dangerous. By the time it shows up in turnover or results, it’s been running for a long time.
It also shows up in who gets a pass. The person who embodies the strength most is often the one whose behavior goes unchecked. I wrote about this in Your Best Manager Is Your Biggest Risk.
What to do about it
The goal isn’t to get rid of your strength. It’s to keep it working for you. Here’s where to start:
- Name your strength out loud. You can’t watch something you haven’t named. Start with what your company is proud of.
- Ask what too much of it looks like. For each strength, describe the behavior that shows it has gone too far. Be specific. “We move fast” becomes “we skip the step where someone checks the risk.”
- Look at what gets a pass. The behavior your company tolerates is usually the downside of the strength it rewards.
- Build the check into your reviews. Rate behaviors, not just results, so overuse shows up before it costs you. Here’s how to add behaviors to your performance review.
- Manage it. Don’t try to eliminate it. The downside comes with the strength. A culture becomes toxic when no one manages the distance between the two. That’s why I say there’s no such thing as a non-toxic culture.
Your strength is still your strength. It just needs someone watching where it ends.
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